Fun Stuff Friday: The Social Newbie
We’ve all been there. The social newbie. “What’s this Twitter thing?” “Do you Facebook?”
I’m addicted to social media. Seriously. I love Twitter and Facebook. I love to see what people are doing. I love it when a long-lost friend discovers me and sends me a friend request. I love just having a glimpse into a long-distance friend’s daily life with the ability to participate. It’s brilliant.
It’s really interesting and fun to watch someone new to social media go through the stages of adoption. For instance, my husband wasn’t particularly interested in joining any social network until he found out that his family was quickly adopting Facebook. Once he got on, he discovered old friends and acquaintances. He even reconnected with some long-lost relatives that found him through his family network. A couple of weeks ago, one of his distant cousins posted a very old picture of his father and his father’s siblings in their youth. We downloaded the picture, uploaded it to a local drugstore’s photo portal, printed it, framed it on the spot and delivered it to his father that day. I’d say that the value of the social network proved itself in just that one act of discovery and sharing.
While he was a Facebook convert, Twitter was this elusive THING that he just didn’t get. I tweet. Sometimes a little, sometimes a lot. I keep track of a ton of topics from social media to Dachshunds, and I find new people that are as passionate about these interests as I am. He didn’t get why I would do all of this. Do I really care that someone I don’t know posted a picture of their dog? Why, yes I do.
But just the other day, he was at an industry conference where a speaker related a story about the power of Twitter and the “loose” connection of people. The speaker gave an example of the need to reference a presentation and paper for one of his upcoming talks. He was unable to find the information after numerous Google searches. He then tweeted about it. Within minutes, he had the reference link. He explained that the loose connections of people led to someone who had the answer. His close connections (friends, colleagues) were unable to supply him what he needed, but their very loose, unstructured connections (within their extended and unknown community) picked up on the conversation and found the data.
That one example lit the bulb over my husband’s head. And I think this happens many many times a day. One thing or another may draw someone into joining a social network, but a concrete example of personal value turns a newbie into a convert.
Life, as we know it, has changed for good.
Happy Fun Stuff Friday, everyone.

Sometimes business travel can be fun.
It makes me so happy to see the melt water flow across the parking lot. It has been a hard-fought winter, complete with 5-foot icicles cascading off of the eaves of my home. Now, we have a clear sign (outside of Punxsutawney Phil’s prediction) that Spring is just around the corner. And I couldn’t be happier.
This is our 50th Fun Stuff Friday post!
So to mark my 50th post, I’d like to thank Dave (yes, you Dave!) for his ever-patient support as I grumble about html and CSS, drive him crazy about Java script and PHP errors, and generally become a pain in the…you know…when I post to and update this blog and this site. (Don’t kill me Dave. Please?)
I love it when I discover something new. And I’m thankful that there are others out there that are sharing what they have learned and discovered.


When I went out to dinner last night, I found that the restaurant I visited was fully decorated for Halloween and all the wait staff were in full costume. The menu had new “limited time” items for me to try, and they had fun activities and specials planned for this coming weekend. It was fun to see the restaurant get into the Halloween spirit, and it made me think about how businesses can utilize holidays to drive sales and customer engagement as well as provide a fun environment for their employees.

